Do Not Reward Yourself With Food… You Are Not A Dog.

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The title of this blog post, “Do Not Reward Yourself With Food… You Are Not A Dog” is a quote I read many months ago. This quote slapped me upside the head like a two-ton brick because rewarding myself with food is exactly what I’ve always done. And I’m here to tell you, it’s a hard habit to break. Even as a clean eater. But it’s not impossible…

Do Not Reward Yourself With Food... You Are Not A Dog.

I noticed a while back that I was beginning to become more aware of my inclination to turn to food for comfort. And this was a turning point for me. Because if you can take notice of what you are doing, it suddenly breaks a pattern that has become automatic.

I’d be willing to bet that for most of you comfort eaters (and you know who you are), comfort eating is mindless eating. You turn to food without a second thought. There is an automatic assumption that you will feel better if you eat ___________ (fill in the blank). And guess what? For a short amount of time (usually the amount of time it takes to eat whatever you’re eating), you DO feel better! It’s absolute, instant gratification! What’s not to love?

But we also know what happens right after that instant relief hits. Just about the time we finish eating whatever it is we’re eating. The guilt sets in. The self-deprecation and even disgust kick in, and we suddenly find ourselves in a place we never intended to end up in. A place that leaves us feeling worse than we felt before we ate what we ate.

I know this cycle WAY too well. I know it by heart. I can play it out in my mind every time I think about rewarding myself with food. I can think ahead and already feel the disgust with myself that I will feel if I eat for comfort. It’s a simple and easy response to a stressful situation, but it doesn’t solve anything.  Eating does not deliver comfort or stress relief. While it may provide a few instantaneous chemical changes in the body that do indeed make us think we feel better, the truth is, it’s the long-lasting “feel-better” we are after. And we never get that when we eat for comfort.

So with that in mind, I asked you guys how you treat yourselves without food. Below is a list of 30 things you can do instead. But remember, the first step is to recognize it every time you begin the cycle. If you don’t recognize it, you can’t fix it.

Note: I realize many of these are things you can buy. Some people were not happy with that. But I will say this… You absolutely do not have to buy yourself something to reward yourself. This is simply a list I compiled from my readers. Ideas that they shared with me. If you have any “non-purchase” ideas, please feel free to share them in a comment. I’d love to hear them!

Do Not Reward Yourself With Food

You are human. Reward yourself with one of these instead.

  1. Go for a walk on a beautiful day (truthfully, this is my favorite. Time to think and time to feel better!)
  2. Get a manicure and/or pedicure
  3. Have a massage (okay, maybe this one is my favorite….)
  4. Go to a movie
  5. Buy a new shirt/skirt/outfit/shoes
  6. Buy a new workout DVD
  7. Buy a new book
  8. Read a magazine
  9. Window shop
  10. Rent a movie
  11. Give yourself a facial
  12. Have a girl’s/boy’s night out with friends
  13. Take the dog to a dog park
  14. Buy new workout clothes or shoes
  15. Take a drive
  16. Go fishing
  17. Go for a hike
  18. Go rock climbing
  19. Do something you’ve been a little afraid to do
  20. Hang out with a kid who could use a friend
  21. Volunteer
  22. Visit a friend you haven’t seen in ages
  23. Buy yourself some flowers ( I do this a lot)
  24. Go berry/apple/fruit picking
  25. Walk through a farmer’s market and just enjoy the people
  26. Buy craft supplies
  27. Buy some new makeup
  28. Get a new haircut or color
  29. Journal
  30. Meditation/Yoga (Pick a free yoga video or guided meditation video on Youtube!)
  31. Have a cup of tea – While this is technically consuming something, enjoying a good cup of tea is a well known relaxation technique.
  32. If you are creative, paint a new painting.
  33. Clean – If you are somebody who feels relaxed while cleaning, this is always a great option and you have the benefit of a clean house.

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  3. graciouspantry says:

    Sally – It’s so hard to break those cycles. But it is possible! I fight them every day, so I know it’s a struggle. But it’s worth it!

  4. Jennygrl779 says:

    I wrote this on your FB page but ill write here too! 🙂 ……….Do not reward yourself with food. You are not a dog …. I have seen this before and it always makes me laugh! so true! it was my birthday the other day and i went to spin class that morning i was feeling great! my grandparents wanted to buy us all pizza for lunch i almost said yes, then i thought why cuz its my birthday? that’s dumb! i never eat that stuff why eat it now … so i went and bought a pair of jeans with the money instead! and guess what I bought a pair of jeans a whole size smaller than what I normally wear , now that is much better than rewarding yourself with food! 🙂

    1. graciouspantry says:

      Just awesome. Awesome!!!!

  5. graciouspantry says:

    I so understand. And what a great way to deal with it! What great memories you’ll have!

  6. graciouspantry says:

    Haha! Love it!

  7. graciouspantry says:

    Yes, I do believe these foods are addictive. They are engineered that way. I wish your sister all the best. It’s a tough addiction. I’ve been there myself.

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  9. Great post! :o) I have been trying to think of non-buying things to add to the list and this is what I have so far:
    * Read a book, even if its just a chapter.
    * Drink water (not sure if this was mentioned)
    * Memorize Scripture or a poem.
    * Pop in a funny movie and laugh. :o)
    * Look through pictures as long as they don’t make you want to eat. ;o)
    * Write a card or a letter to someone that may be struggling.
    * Write a letter to a soldier. There are lots of websites out there with information on how to do this.

    I guess that’s it for now, hopefully these can also help someone! :o)

    1. The Gracious Pantry says:

      Lesley – Great ideas! Thanks!

  10. Thank you so much! I usually use food or money (buying new things) to reward myself but that blows my budget or diet. I never thought of volunteering. We love helping other people and this would be one motivator that would help me actually stop eating the sugar!

    1. The Gracious Pantry says:

      Jennifer – Wonderful! You’ll do great! 😀

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